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Connie Fancher

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Profession(s):

Transpersonal Life Coach

Experience:

2 years

Qualification(s):

  • BA Degree in Organizational Psychology
  • MA Degree in Transpersonal Psychology
  • Certificate in Transpersonal Life Coaching
  • Certificate in Neshamah Healing

Issue(s):

Life Transition; Relationship; Personal Development

Specialty:

  • Creating Balance
  • Defining Goals
  • Life Transitions
  • Better Relationships
  • Personal Growth
  • Empowerment and Confidence
  • Creating Vision and Future Purpose
  • Finding Inner Peace

Language(s):

EN (English)

About me:

I am not sure when I first heard the story of the clay covered statue of the Buddha in Thailand, but the image has become the core of how I see my clients in my coaching work. The story is told that in the 1930’s, a gold painted clay statue of the Buddha was warehoused when its temple home was to be destroyed during improvements to be done on the banks of the river nearby. Since the monks would not destroy a statue of the Buddha, they stored it instead. It remained in storage until it was placed in a new temple built 20 years later in the 1950’s. In the move to the new temple, the statue was dropped and it fell into the mud where upon further investigation they found many cracks in the statue. One monk, waking from a dream about the sacred statue, checked it out at night with a flashlight and was shocked to see something shining through the cracks. He woke the other monks and together they carefully removed the clay until they uncovered a solid gold statue of the Buddha underneath. It is believed that it was covered in clay by monks at an earlier time in history to protect it from the danger of being stolen by invaders of the area at that time. It is visited by many to this day and a shining example of the triumph of inner treasure.

This story serves to remind me that we each have a center as precious as gold that has been covered by life’s clay, often for our own protection. When we feel safe, we can start removing these layers to experience the magnificence of who we really are. For me, coaching is an art that can ever so gently help remove the layers of clay that have formed over time so we can shine our light in the world for others to see.

I know that you have a dream in your heart that is ready to be uncovered, but you may be living in quiet desperation, numbing to the pain of being less than the light you are meant to shine. I know the pain and I can tell you that it is never too late to uncover the truth of your being and find the purpose you would fulfill. I can help you rediscover the core of your being, the reason you are here. It is the calling of your soul for you to walk on this Earth and express what you were born to make manifest. You may have lost touch, you may have hidden it, or you may have just forgotten that it exists, but I can tell you with all honesty that you are here to share more of yourself with the world. You only need to wake up from your sleep and begin living your dream today.

As a Certified Transpersonal Life Coach, I encourage you to discover the truth of your own being. My own transformational style in coaching is towards wholeness. I visualize us taking your box of sacred puzzle pieces and after lovingly accepting each one as necessary, putting them carefully together to become whole. It is not just about me listening to what you say but in also listening to the silence where the magic resides. I encourage you to envision a life you have only dreamed of living, not only what you want but why you want it and from that knowing, daring to discover how you will take action in the world to achieve your goals. It is a powerful way to live, not always easy, but always worthwhile.

I specialize in helping you personally grow through a positive and solution-focused style of coaching. I ask transformational questions that create the space for you to go deeper into your own process. I also provide support and practical feedback to help you effectively address your personal life challenges. I integrate cutting-edge coaching techniques and helpful assignments to offer a highly-personalized program tailored to you. With compassion and understanding, I will work with you to help build on your strengths and attain the personal growth you are committed to achieving.

I am also certified in an energy healing modality and meditative practice that is designed to bring balance to your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual body. This work has enabled me to be more intuitive and increased my awareness of my emphatic abilities. I think it enhances my coaching path and has served my own life in miraculous ways by adding a deep sense of joy to my work. For anyone following a spiritual path, meditation can help you have a deeper experience of your spiritual self. For this reason, I am committed to my own meditative practice and can also help you find the peace, love, and joy that await you in this experience plus the deep sense of connection and calmness that follows you through your day.

My mission in life is to be an instrument of peace by creating a space of pure potential for others to become whole through my practice of Life Coaching and Energy Healing. I believe that we already contain everything we need to become an authentic expression of the Divine and it is both my sacred honor and my intention to be a guide and witness to this process in each person I serve. I believe in the persistence of the human spirit to seek out ways to make a connection with their Divine source in order to elevate their lives here on Earth. I value being a part of a profession dedicated to helping others self-actualize, fulfill their dreams, and work to raise the vibration of humanity. I value the healing power of nature and its ability to easily remind us of our connection to and place in a bigger Universe. I seek to create a space of unconditional love where others can connect to their source in order to heal, become whole, and continue to become greater expressions of peace and love.

I have been committed to helping people find their unique expression throughout my career, first as a cosmetologist, helping others by making them feel more beautiful, then as a realtor in service to finding the perfect environment in which to live. It was when my family was grown that I rekindled my passion for psychology. I unexpectedly discovered a branch of psychology that I was unaware of at the time, transpersonal psychology. With a spiritual focus, it was exactly what I was seeking and the positive focus of coaching was more appealing, as I wanted to help others in the positive direction my life had taken with the help of a Life Coach. I have never regretted this decision and it has been both fulfilling and my source of joy. I look forward to serving you in finding fulfillment so that life continues to be a source of wonder and you walk as the light you were meant to shine.